Sunday, December 23, 2018

Common Influence

(Romans 12:2 NLT) Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect.


Theses things limit your influence.

1. I must protect what's mine.

2. I must benefit myself.

3. I must control my situation.

4. I must win at all cost.



People Have Problems


People will  disappoint you.



(Matthew 14:31 NLT) ... Jesus said. “Why did you doubt me?”


People make mistakes.


(Matthew 16:23) Jesus turned and said to Peter, “Get behind me, Satan! You are a stumbling block to me;”


People are selfish.


(Mark 14:37) “Simon,” he said to Peter, “are you asleep? Couldn’t you keep watch for one hour?”


People might betray you.


(Mark 14:71) He (Peter) began to call down curses, and he swore to them, “I don’t know this man (Jesus) you’re talking about.”

You will have uncommon influence if you believe the best ever after their worst.


Uncommon Influence
(Matthew 16:18 NLT) Now I say to you that you are Peter (which means ‘rock’), and upon this rock I will build my church, and all the powers of hell will not conquer it.

(John 21:17 NLT) A third time he asked him, “Simon son of John, do you love me?” Peter was hurt that Jesus asked the question a third time. He said, “Lord, you know everything. You know that I love you.” Jesus said, “Then feed my sheep.”


My influence is not determined by my level of success but by my ability to help you succeed.



1. Focus on the person.


(Philippians 2:3-4 NLT) Don’t be selfish; don’t try to impress others. Be humble, thinking of others as better than yourselves. Don’t look out only for your own interests, but take an interest in others, too.
  

2.Focus on the positive. Forgive the negative.  


(Ephesians 4:32 NLT) Instead, be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you.

If you can't see the positive, you're never going to make it.


3.Focus on their potential.


(1 Peter 4:10 NLT) God has given each of you a gift from his great variety of spiritual gifts. Use them well to serve one another.

When we discover the best in others, God shows us the best in us. 


4.Focus on their purpose.

(Ephesians 2:10 NLT) For we are God’s masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things he planned for us long ago.


Love them enough to have hard conversations. 


5.Focus on their growth process.



(Luke 6:38 NLT) Give, and you will receive. Your gift will return to you in full—pressed down, shaken together to make room for more, running over, and poured into your lap. The amount you give will determine the amount you get back.” 


"My greatest accomplishments in life are someone else's." Billy Hornsby.

Layne Schranz, Church of the Highlands
https://www.churchofthehighlands.com/media/message/uncommon-influence
All scripture is from the New International Version unless otherwise noted.


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